Top Myths Surrounding Foster Care

Oftentimes what people know, or think they know, about the foster care system is what has been represented through movies or TV. But in reality, the foster care system is full of dedicated and passionate social workers, parents, judges, families in need of help, and children who are often caught in the middle. Foster parents are typically represented by a couple, a stay-at-home mom, a large house, and maybe, but not always, a kid of their own in the house.

While this image is sure to occur in reality at some point, there are thousands of individuals and families who are foster parents and do not fit this stereotype. So what other myths are there about foster care?

At FCCY, we have a team of passionate staff who want to help children experience a safe, loving, and nurturing environment while they are in transition between home life and foster life. If you are interested in becoming a foster parent, but are worried that you may not be a good fit, clearing up these myths may help with any confusion you may have.

I Work Full-Time, So I Can’t Be a Foster Parent

There is no requirement that there needs to be a stay-at-home parent in the household in order to be a foster parent. While it may be more difficult managing the foster child’s schedule as well as your own, there are many ways to make it work and still provide the child with a safe and loving home. Generally, having a foster child in your home is no different than your own biological children.

I Need to be a Parent Before a Foster Parent

Having experience as a parent prior to becoming a foster parent could certainly help you prepare for various situations, but it is not a requirement. Thousands of people have become foster parents without having children of their own. They do, however, need to be mature, responsible, and need to demonstrate that they are capable of and committed to parenting a child and providing them with what they need to learn and grow, or at least be willing to learn parenting skills.

I Have to Provide Clothing, Medical Insurance, and Cover Other Expenses

There’s no doubt that parenting can be expensive. Children need food, clothing, educational materials, health insurance, and more. But when you are a foster parent, the agency you work with, in this case, FCCY, typically provides reimbursement for many expenses. When you become a foster parent through FCCY, you can count on:

  • Daily reimbursement rates
  • Health insurance card that covers medical, dental, vision, therapy, and most prescriptions.
  • 24-hour emergency services
  • Reimbursement for previously approved expenses
  • Availability of educational scholarships

All Foster Children Are Difficult to Handle

Foster children do come from a wide range of family situations, some of which can have an impact on their behavior. However, not all children in the foster care system will be challenging or throwing tantrums every day. In addition, providing a child with a structured environment where they are getting care and attention can make a significant difference in their lives. Being a foster parent is an opportunity to teach them coping skills in order for them to become strong and capable people.

Foster Kids Will Disrupt My Family

If you have your own children, there’s a good chance that bringing another child into the home will cause some friction, similarly to what would happen if you have a second biological child. Your children may feel like they are being “replaced,” or that you care more about the foster child. In the end, however, many foster families feel that it has a positive impact on family dynamics. There is an initial learning curve for everyone, but with the right support from FCCY, your whole family can become closer.

Being a foster care parent is an incredibly rewarding experience, so don’t let myths or misunderstandings get in the way of helping a child experience a nurturing home. Contact FCCY today to learn more about becoming a foster parent.

cta2rev1

With experienced, compassionate and dedicated professionals, we'll work with you in order to find the best solutions. Whether you know a child in need of emergency services, or you are looking to provide a home for those in need, call us today!

14011-cta-lrg2

The mission of Family Care for Children & Youth, Inc. is to be the best social service agency committed to providing an excellent standard of care and culturally competent services while communicating compassion, empathy, and hope for the future.

OUR HAPPY FAMILIES SAY IT ALL

Check out our success stories below

"THEY CARE ABOUT THE CHILDREN AND ARE VERY THOROUGH"

My husband and I always tell people that talk to us about wanting to foster or adopt about our agency. We enjoy working with this agency because the staff not only care about the careful placement of a child but also about us as a family. Our agency is available and quick to respond to us whether we have an emergency or just a question. They care about the children and are very thorough to ensure the children and the foster family are getting what they need.

Alice Cedrone

"WE ENJOY GIVING BACK"

Fostering is very positive experience not only for ourselves but also for the child’s well-being. We enjoy giving back. Providing a loving, nurturing home to a child gives the child an opportunity to have a normal childhood as possible.
Millie Flores

"WE WOULD RECOMMEND FCCY"

Picking FCCY to work with has been the best thing my husband and I could have done. We have had only positive experiences with this agency. The case managers are so good and give you total support as a foster parent. We would recommend FCCY to others looking into foster care.

P. Kyler